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what do relational somatic counsellors actually do?
Like all counsellors, Relational Somatic Counsellors work from a particular therapeutic orientation. In our case, that orientation is body-based. There are many different approaches to therapy. Some counsellors focus primarily on emotions, trauma processing, or attachment patterns. Others specialize in specific modalities such as Art Therapy, Gestalt Therapy, Play Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). Some may w

alexandra megan hart
Feb 134 min read


why try somatic counselling therapy?
Somatic therapy is an approach to psychotherapy that recognizes the deep connection between the body (and it's systems), the mind, the emotions, and lived experience. Emerging research in psychology and neuroscience suggests that stress and trauma are not only processed cognitively, but are also held in patterns of tension, sensation, and physiological response within the body. Because of this, many people find that meaningful healing involves more than insight alone — it als

alexandra megan hart
Feb 63 min read


on feeling fully - emotions as teachers
For a little while now I have been reflecting on the importance of allowing oneself to feel fully. What I mean by this is enabling oneself to feel all emotions; the full spectrum of them... and learning to let them move through us, entirely. Without holds, without restriction, without limitation. This doesn't mean acting on them, and it doesn't mean letting ourselves lose our balance (unless we're ready to), but most certainly, feeling them. A lot of us in Western society are

alexandra megan hart
Nov 13, 20255 min read


what somatic healing feels like over time
Healing through somatic work happens slowly, often with moments of big revelations or movements of energy. It moves at the pace of...

alexandra megan hart
Aug 15, 20255 min read


the journey of integration: making sense of our life story and past wounds
I am feeling the call to write about what I know at this point about integration work generally as well as in the context of...

alexandra megan hart
Aug 3, 20257 min read


what exactly is resourcing?
Resourcing is a common term used in the therapy world - but what exactly is it? To start, when we consider the word "resource", generally...

alexandra megan hart
Jul 25, 20254 min read


the significance of relational healing
the nature of wounding in relationships Most often, our wounding as human beings happens in the relational arena. When we're relating...

alexandra megan hart
Jul 11, 20254 min read


reflections on the short film Kingdom, one year later..
The short animated film Kingdom inspired me SO much that I'm still thinking about it a year after it's release. Still it moves me to...

alexandra megan hart
May 22, 20256 min read


what are disconfirming experiences?
Disconfirming experiences are experiences which disconfirm our previous understandings and update our perspective. When a disconfirming...

alexandra megan hart
Mar 14, 20253 min read


reflections on how childhood trauma can stay with us & how we can heal it - part 1
Trauma from childhood, also known as developmental trauma, is a particularly challenging form of trauma to heal from. Because so much of...

alexandra megan hart
Mar 4, 20255 min read


what exactly is space holding?
Space holding is the act of creating an intentional space for listening to and being with another person in a way that is supportive to...

alexandra megan hart
Feb 22, 20253 min read


reflections on 9 years of devoted daily meditation practice
This January 1, 2025 marked 9 years of daily devoted meditation practice for me! I began on January 1, 2016... and I am eternally...

alexandra megan hart
Jan 9, 20253 min read


somatic therapy within the therapeutic paradigm shift
Did you know? Currently the world of therapy is undergoing a paradigm shift. We are evolving from a mental model to a psycho-biological...

alexandra megan hart
Dec 30, 20243 min read
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